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Articles on New York Divorce Law

May 27, 2017



Often times a custody or divorce case in New York will go to a trial, a fact-finding or a hearing.

This means that your case will be heard by the Judge on the facts, that testimony will be taken from the parties and documents and videos and electronic data may be admitted into evidence for consideration by the court.

As for fault, grounds for divorce are rarely at issue in a New York Divorce since the advent of the new change in the law allowing for parties to proceed on a no-fault ground of irretrievable breakdown of a marriage. That said, the traditional grounds for divorce may still be raised and if so you are allowed to hear your case, as to fault, by a jury.

In the interests of judicial economy however your divorce Judge will emphasize the importance of settling grounds for divorce early on because it will cost a fortune to try fault and nothing is gained except to fuel the flames of an already inflammatory situation. So, unless the fault of one spouse is flagrant and egregious misconduct, it is best to plead grounds under the no fault statute.

When I say that nothing can be gained, I mean that unless the fault is unconscionable it rarely affects the result of your case.  That is, the court will not first require either party to plead a fault divorce in order that it might fairly distribute property under equitable distribution, or order support, or order a custodial schedule.

There are times when fault becomes relevant in a divorce trial, however.  For instance, in a custody case the court must under the law consider domestic violence allegations in its determination of custody and it is also allowable to argue domestic violence as it pertains to spousal support.

Most cases are settled before they go to an evidentiary hearing. But your attorney should always be trial ready because you never know when a court might require you to take the stand and give testimony.  But more often than not you will be given adequate time to prepare

A hearing usually pertains to temporary orders, such as modification petitions and contempt petitions or Pendente Lite motions for custody. But a trial usually refers to the taking of testimony so the Court can have a full hearing on all of the issues of the marriage or the custody case so that it can make an informed final decision.


Every hearing or trial usually will start with an opening statement by the attorneys for the spouses. This opening statement is not evidence but is rather a road map to explain to the Judge what the attorney proposes to prove through evidence.

Once the trial start, inn New York we have rules of evidence that require lawyers to follow certain procedures before asking a Judge to consider your documents or other pieces of evidence.

This might lead one to ask what types of documents or items can be introduced into evidence.

In general, all evidence is capable of being offered for consideration so long as it is relevant to prove your case and so long as opposition counsel does not pose an objection. Of course, there is also the issue of reliability of the evidence and as to that issue the law provides guidelines and rules of evidence that lawyers must follow before a document can be admitted into evidence.  For instance, hearsay is inadmissible such that a person cannot take the stand and testify to what he or she heard another person said they saw because that testimony is not based upon firsthand knowledge. So, since that third person is not in the court room to be cross examined, that person’s testimony cannot come into evidence as it is inherently unreliable.

There are exceptions to the hearsay rule however and that would include out of court statements made in a document by the party litigant.  This type of evidence is admitted because you can call that party to the stand and ask them about that paper and the contents of the statement contained therein. Also, a dying declaration or a spontaneous utterance or a declaration against penal interests are deemed reliable enough to be admitted into evidence even if it is hearsay.

Business records are another exception to the hearsay rule but there are certain requirements of reliability that must be shown before they can be admitted, and they must be certified by the record keeper who says, among other things, that the record was kept in the ordinary course of business, it was true when recorded, recorded simultaneously to the incident and it was the business of that company to keep said records.

People often needlessly draw a distinction between documentary evidence and testimony.  In reality both testimony and documentary evidence, if believed, can form a basis for a court decision, and in reality, there is no real difference as the court must consider both forms of evidence in the rendering of its divorce judgment or custody determination.

So, what happens if you take the stand and forget how you are to answer a question because you are nervous?  Them the attorney may ask you to refresh your recollection and is allowed to let you take a look at a document that might help you to remember.  Of course, there are complex evidentiary rules that must be followed to perfect his method of testimony.

Each party is allowed to present their case through direct examination and each party is allowed to conduct cross examination of an opposing party’s testimony. And each party’s attorney may object to the form of a question or object on other legal grounds.

It is important for a trial attorney to know how to try a case because if they fail to object to evidence as it is presented in a court of law and the court rules inaccurately based upon said evidence that should have been objected to, then you cannot appeal this as error to a higher court.

At the end of the trial when all the parties rest the attorneys are allowed to make their closing arguments.  However, closing arguments are not evidence and should rather be persuasive in nature and designed to be based upon the evidence.

For the above reasons, if you are headed for a trial, it makes sense to hire an attorney that has trial experience. In interviewing a lawyer for your divorce or custody case be sure to ask the attorney how much trial experience they have. It can make a world of difference.



Do Grandparents have visitation rights?
May 15, 2017

Do Grandparent's have rights in a custody case?

Grandparents sometimes have rights to visitation and custody under certain circumstances. However, they have to file their own petition in Family Court. If a case is already pending then ask that it be joined with the primary petition.

A grandparent may request visitation in Family Court where at least one of the child's parents is deceased or where one of the parents is not allowing the grandparents to visit or under other circumstances. The Courts use the test of best interests of the child as their guiding light

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May 11, 2017

A Motion is a request filed by an attorney requesting that the Court take action on some matter related to an ongoing dispute.  There are countless varieties of Motions.  Typically, Motions are filed to either enforce and existing court order or to modify a court order.  This comes up in the issues of child custody, child support, alimony, discovery, and every other facet of the divorce process.
Motions may also be filed in an expedited fashion by way of an Order to Show Cause.  Usually this is filed when a party is seeking emergency relief or if the Court rules require it to be so filed in that fashion rather than on Notice of Motion. There are many rules that form a predicate for a motion for relief which can be found in the New York Civil Procedure Rules and Law, the Domestic Relations Law and the Family Court Act.
Speak to and seek out the advise of a lawyer before attempting to file a motion in New York.
By: Lisa Beth Older, Esq. Your NYC Divorce Lawyer

What is Separate Property? What is Marital Property?
April 26, 2017

What is Marital property in a New York Divorce case?.
Marital property is anything you or your spouse have acquired or saved during the marriage, such as a car, a house, bank accounts, pensions, and a business.   
What is separate property?  Separate property is where one spouse is declared the sole owner of the property under certain instances.  For example, if one spouse owned property before the marriage and kept it separate and did not put the other spouse’s name on it then it remains separate property. Also, any gifts you receive from someone is deemed your separate property as is inheritances or property that the parties agree will remain separate in a formal document acknowledged in a formal writing that meets New York State requirements such as a nuptial agreement or prenuptial agreement. 
property acquired by one spouse using separate property assets with the intention of keeping it separate.  Also keep in mind that portions of a personal injury awards can also be considered separate property such as compensatory awards for pain and suffering verses loss of wages. 
By Lisa Beth Older, Esq. 
Law Offices of Lisa Beth Older

April 22, 2017

Some might ask how do I get certified copies of my NY divorce papers? You can obtain these papers or any other Court Order of divorce judgment be going to the County Clerk Office in the county where the divorce occurred and was entered.

It is not too difficult. Just bring your credit card or cash. There will be a fee for copies and certified copies.
However because divorce judgments are not public records only some people may obtain them, such as the party themselves of an attorney representing them.  

Let us say you forgot where the divorce was entered, then what? Well, then try the New York e-court website.  Three you can search for your case number by only providing the party's name. 

Another way is to get a divorce papers certificate from the NYS Department of Health, which also charges for this service.

An opinion on Mediation by One of the many Top New York City Divorce Lawyers
April 22, 2017



Should I litigate my divorce or Mediate my New York Divorce case/


Mediating your divorce through mediation is a good alternative to trying your case in front of a Judge because spouses that can still remain civil have the opportunity to save a lot of money on New York City divorce lawyers.  Here, a third party trained “mediator” helps you to reach a mutually acceptable agreement as to how to go about splitting up the assets which parties, how to ascertain who owes what and how much child support or spousal support, and such other issues as child custody and visitation.  It is not safe to enter into mediation if one spouse is alleging domestic violence against the other spouse and it is not advisable, in my personal opinion, where one spouse knows more about the other spouse as the marital assets.

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